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On your bed!

By : Beau James

Micah 2:1 “Woe to those who devise iniquity, And work out evil on their beds!  At the morning they practice it.”

I have lived this before with porn.  Everyone who has been in bondage to pornography or sexual immorality of any kind has gone through this dark night of the soul.  So many thoughts at night while trying to sleep.  Sometimes even begging for sleep, knowing that the pull of lust is far greater then one realized.  Over time we give up the fight and just buy into it.  Living with it becomes easier then battling it.   This is a no fun place to be.  Oh, the inward moaning that rips us apart.  C.S. Lewis once said that a man with a obsession has very little sales resistance.  On our bed’s this is true.  Obsession wins the battle in our minds, every time.

Jesus breaks this bondage.  John 8:36 “If the Son set’s you free you are free indeed!”

When Jesus became more than (Matthew 10:37) porn, our pleasure is now found in Him.  What battle used to rage in the mind and hearts of us on those dark nights in bed cease, for what was once a obsession, is no longer so good looking, we have something far more pleasurable and eternal!

2nd Corinthians 4:17 “For our light affliction, whih is but for moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of Glory.”

For us to abstain from porn is a great gain a eternal weight of Glory.

Of curse this only will make sense if you believe in the eternal.

Porn and the Tea Party

Mainstream Media Sneers at Tea Party Protests

Thursday, April 16, 2009
By Greg Gutfeld

ANDERSON COOPER: It’s hard to talk when you’re tea-bagging.

(END VIDEO CLIP)

“It’s hard to talk when you’re tea-bagging.”

So true.

Now, if you’re too old, or too high, to get it, here’s the joke: The lefty media are goofing on the tea parties by calling it tea-bagging, a phrase used to describe an act of oral sex performed by a man either on another man, woman or — in Alec Baldwin’s case — a cheeseburger.

The above was taken from a article on FOxNews.com

The influence of Porn is just amazingly huge in this country.  With the current tea party’s happening all over the country certain news networks have chosen to make fun of the events by referring to the tea party’s by using porn tactics!  Using porn lingo like “tea bag” for the current protest shows that the porn influence is the norm for this world, even for our news.  Now “Teabag” is a way of describing a sexual act, and is no way to be used to describe the bank bailout protest’s that are going on.  But this is my generation that is now news anchors and the swayers of public opinion.  We are a porn generation.

But the Word tells us.. “Woe to those who devise iniquity.”

No one sees me

By: Beau James

 

This title is takin from Isaiah 47:10

It also talks about those enemy’s of Israel that were so confident in the sin.  “Therefore hear this now, you who are given to pleasures, who dwell securely, who say in your heart, I am, and there is no one else besides me.”

This is a passage that has convicted me in dealing with bondage to porn.

People who are in bondage to porn have done it secretly (most people).  It usally at night, late at night when the family has gone to bed.  You might have been the guy or girl who has stayed awake for the purpose of finding privacy to drink from the well of Porn only to find regret the next day at work as you are totlally exhausted from staying up way to late.  Sin is never satisfied, nor are the eyes.

Proverbs 27:20
Hell and Destruction are never full; So the eyes of man are never satisfied.

Porn effects all those around us in our lives, yet we live in the illusionment that “No one sees me.”  While we drink from the mud of Porn early in the morning, we no longer are able to see things properly in the day.  We have slowly become of no use.  That reminds me of the movie ‘Toy Story’ where the toys where so afraid to be shelved and no longer of any use.  Most of those married can testify that our spouses new something was going on, they could just sence it.  Familes fall apart, our work becuase a burden, and money is spent on what does not satisfy. (Isaiah 55)

Are you a person that has seen this “No one sees me” happen in your own life?  Have you bought into that illusion that your bondage to sexual sin is just your little secret and your hurting no-one?

Millions and millions have (including me) have gone that way, only to find that the secrecy of porn’s payoff was not freedom, but total bondage.

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Gay movement good for Christianity in America?

By Beau James
OK, with that title I need to do some defending.  Please hear me out.
I begin my defense by stating a Christian doctrine so true and foundational yet not without its proponents, “God is Sovereign.”
This is a direct quote from the scriptures themselves (Gen 15:2)

Genesis 15:2
But Abram said, “O Sovereign LORD”
Now the awkwardness with the Sovereignty of God is abroad in the Christian culture.  “How can God be in control of all?”  “How can a Holy God allow such evil and wrong doing in the world?”
On our subject we could say, “How can God allow such behavior that by nature does not work?”
But in my own heart there became a wonderfully gentle peace that has come over me when I grabbed a hold of the truth that God does all things for His Glory. (Psalm 115:1 “Not to us but to your name be the Glory”)
All things, even evil things are allowed and purposed to His utter Glory (Job, Acts 2:23)
Now where I use to get muddled with this is when I would look at a statement like the above and then look to my own end as a argument against such a statement.
My own end, is what I think, is the right thing.  This ‘right thing’ is usually what makes me “Happy.”  There was a time when our own happiness was not such dominant thought in the world, but more issues of survival and virtue.  This ‘right thing’ that we all think God should be about the business of doing is birthed from our own sinful state of thinking we are the center of the universe, or ours.  “How could God allow that, look at the bloodshed and the atrocity, the injustice?”  “How does God get the Glory for that?”  Notice that these common thoughts come from the perspective not of faith in what the scriptures teach, which is again, “All things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to His Purpose (His Glory.)  These well known arguments against the purpose of God come from our reasoning that God is not doing things as I think are right.
Now my argument is that God is purposing all things for His Glory.  Whether the Pharaoh of Egypt or the Homosexual agenda in America.
I now would like to share why I believe this generation in America is allowing such behavior.  One world…Guilt.
What pain is to the body, guilt is to the soul.  And this generation of leaders is guilty.  I remember sitting with some family members in my living room watching a sporting event when they asked where my son was.  They knew he was in his room playing his “evil” video games, wasting his 14 year old life away, yet they asked and then went on to say how bad it is to be into video games like that.  I quickly thought about what I was doing at 14 as the son of a 50/60’s generation that smoked dope all day while taking off their clothes listening to the most stoned out music in the rain!  I was not any different.  So I asked my family members, “Now what is it that your generation added to our society, Porn & Pot!?”
My parent’s generation was a mess and has a bolder amount of guilt like yeast has gone through the batch of dough.  This generation I believe is extremely guilty.   Abortions are 46,000,000 since Roe v.s. Wade, We have a massive drug problem in the country, America generates more porn than any other country (90% of the porn sites are U.S. created), music has become less innovative than ever, and now Gay marriage.
To my generation this is normal behavior that’s why I think the younger generation say’s, “what’s the big deal, let them get married, so what.”  It’s not because of guilt for the younger generation, it’s plain, allowed normal behavior.
I believe the response to guilt in the leaders of this generation is either a extreme brokenness before God, and the breaking of his commandments or a further allowance of behavior that makes for a atonement for their own sins.  If they were to say that Gay marriage is wrong then consequently they would have to look at their own lives of having massive sex, smoking extreme quantities of the ganja, and simply not parenting their children because they where to into their BMW’s and boats.   The change of this world is a temporary change for self exaltation, while the humility and brokenness that is found in Jesus is for His exaltation.   This current generation is for self exaltation.
God will purpose in the hardness of heart of this generation in such a way as to make the riches of His grace known.  Simply put, “Where sin abounds, grace abounds all the more” (Rom 5:20).
God is moving all things to a place where this grace in Jesus abounds all the more.   Today I know look at such trends in American culture though the lens of God’s perspective and no longer what I think is right.  “How can God allow this in America?”  My answer is, “Why not?”  What makes you think God revolves around what you think and not His purpose, exalting his Glory through the grace in Jesus to a lost world?
 22What if God, choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath—prepared for destruction? 23What if he did this to make the riches of his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory…Romans 9:22
This will make uncomfortable who think of justice from their own prejudices of right and wrong.  But as one famous Christian Pastor put it in his 1st Chapter, first sentence, “It’s not about you.”
God is concerned about his Glory and the current push to have same sex marriages in America will be used by God to further the maximum Glory to His Name.
What could the results of such a law be in America?  For sure a certain further distancing between Christina ethics and the worlds for sure.  What if Pastor’s will have to perform same sex marriages?  Some will no doubt go to jail.  From the perspective of some this is bad, because who would want to go to jail?  But for the one who knows the ultimate purpose of God is for His Glory jail is a opportunity to be used by the Masters Hand to minister to others and suffer, if it be the Lord’s will, to His Glory.  How sufferings show the Glory of God?  Because when we suffer for Christ name we show to a dying world the infinite worth of following Christ!  This glorifies God.  We are satisfied in Him and Him alone.  “There is nothing I desire on the earth besides you” Psalm 73:25.
If we see the allowance of more and more then it is sure to exalt the holiness of others more and more!
With this is mind, let us believers in Christ fight for what we believe in through a peaceful, law abiding way.   If the Homosexual agenda in America get’s its way, I believe there victory will result in an outpouring of opportunity for the grace in Christ to be sent for those desperately trying to atone for their sins through false pleasure and allowance.  No matter…God wins.

Don't grumble about the past!

By R.L.M. staff member – Karen A.

So many times when an experience or situation puts us in a place of despair we think ” I  just wish it never happened or why can’t I just change the past?”  Here are two reasons…God!….But that’s only one you say?  Let me explain…. 

 We can wish all we want, but the fact is, it did happen, and it cannot be undone by us. We now have to go forward and make what we can out of a bad situation.  But we can’t do that, we are not capable on our own. When we try to change things relying on ourselves, or wishing it away the outcome at best will not be satisfying and at worst complete disaster!   

 We can’t change the past.  We should count it as a blessing.  God uses our past so we can change our future! We can wallow in our past circumstances and become the victim or we can follow our Lord and use the experiences as a Victory.  A victory in the Lord!
You see:

 1) God puts situations in our life to change us, to make us more like Him.  To refine us. That’s why it happened.

 2) God knows what is best for us. If the past, hurtful experiences in our lives did not happen, we would not grow.  We would stay the same. Where then would our faith in Him be? Probably complacent. We would not be relying on Him, we would not become stronger in the Lord. A very wise saying is “God loves us day by day but loves us too much to stay that way!”   That’s why we can’t and shouldn’t want to change the past!

God wants us to trust Him.  He loves us so much! God wants us to lean on Him with every burden and trouble we have.Use your past as a blessing. And in doing so, you will be blessed and our Lord will be glorified!

 “Cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you;  He will never let the righteous fall.”  Psa. 55:22

“May the God of peace, who through the blood of the eternal covenant brought back from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great Shepherd of the sheep, equip you with every good thing for doing His will, and may He work in us what is pleasing to Him, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory for ever and ever.  Amen”       Hbr.13: 19,20

There is nothing like Porn!

What a title! Hope it got your attention. It’s amazing how this open economy we live in has created wonderful things like a microwave and on the other hand has given such fuel to a beast like the Porn industry. Arizona is making some great strides at being one of the most influential states, in the US for the distribution of Porn. In the wonderful, lovely & predominately wealthy Scottsdale resides one of the most famous Porn stars ever! With Club Jenna, Erotica in Arizona is happening coming in ninth place on the Erotica most important cities in the U.S. list! Not bad, I must say, not bad at all. Not only is the Porn industry cranking 97 billion annually a year with the U.S. at just under 14 billion, it’s important I’m sure to our government to keep the ball rolling. Playboy has 700 employee’s which adds up to some good tax dollars to help out the Feds shopping spree. But in all seriousness…(not that what I’ve mentioned isn’t serious), but a real sad effect of such a free market without regulation on what is being sold is seen here in Arizona. In analyzing Google trends, when the word “Porn” is researched for the most hits in a U.S. city, Chandler comes in at number four! Chandler goes down a notch to seventh place when it comes to the searching for “XXX”. And tenth place when “Sex” is typed in.

Will it stop? Not until a righteous ruler comes, until that time, there’s just to much cash to kick around.

What can we do about it? Stop buying it.

Accountibility

Porn addiction is synonymous with darkness. The clubs I went to with friends were dark. Vegas is only cool at night and the sunset strip is too! There is something to be said about doing deeds of darkness in darkness, for the light seems to quench it’s power. Accountability is about bringing the addiction into the light. I remember the old vampire flicks from Elvira, the mistress of the dark. I thought they were so spooky. The scenes were in creepy looking houses that were ancient. Who in there right mind would want to watch a scary flick like that in the day? That messes the whole thing up!

Lights tends to spoil the darkness and make the darkness seem less intimidating and strong. So it is with porn. Most people that I’ve known who have been into porn have not been into it in a congregational setting, it’s a private affair. Usually it’s done in a dark room or night time when everyone is asleep. It’s just the person and a computer or a TV, and few extra items that we need not go into and tada! That’s it! And I don’t see many windows or doors for that matter in adult stores! Porn people like there privacy. So the environment of a porn addict is one of being alone or at least hidden from others. Bringing the addiction into the open doesn’t just ‘seem’ to kill the strength of the sin, but it actually does do it by no longer keeping the consistent environment of secrecy in which the addiction thrives.
Accountability not only means bringing the addiction into the “light,” but it also entails a continual, honest and growing relationship with a person that has been freed himself from porn. Many people who have not been into porn do not have the understanding of the sick, wicked and deceptive mind that they are working with. Porn addicts want to be alone with there porn. There thinking is always to pursue more porn. My dad used to say, “you can’t BS a old BS’r.” And in that cured statement, I believe there is a truth to it.
With what I just said, now I wish to show, that accountability with a freed porn addict is the real, but not the ideal! It would be ideal if everyone in the Christian Church could minister to a porn addict! If only all of us in the church new the depth of our sin and the wickedness of our minds. But so many in the body see themselves as “not as bad off” as the porn addict or any other kind of addict. “Sure I might sin a bit,” someone might think to himself, but the Biblical reality is any type of missing the mark of God’s perfection and Glory is a offence to Him, and because of such action on our parts, the cross was needed. Jesus blood was shed for the porn addict and the prideful pomp.
Christ died for the ungodly…Romans 5:6

Why object to a God? SEX?

Have you every thought that people who are Atheist are smarter then you? And because they are smart…scientific people they don’t believe in a God? Why would they…they have all the answers right…

I like what Aldous Huxley from the infamous Huxley family and Atheist said, “We objected to the morality (religious) because it interefered with our sexual freedom.”

See…Not believeing in God isn’t just because the scientist has proven there is no God, (that hasn’t happened).

Not believeing in God free’s them from any accountibility for their action. I can do whatever, and there is no God who will settle the score later on.

And did you notice what kind of liberation Huxley was talking about? SEX!!!

I like the quote from Dinesh D’Souza’s book “Why is Christianity so Great, on pg. 269, “The orgasm has become today’s secular sacrament.”

So many refuse to accept a Creator because the feeling they get during a intiment occation with themselves or another.

Do we love our lust that much?

What a football..uh porn …game!

Well once again the Super Bowl game has given us more then we asked for! 

Fortunately for me I didn’t see it, but of course when I got on the internet it was posted all over the place. Tucson AZ, comcast company got something a bit tweeked and well… a hard core porn scene was what we got for 10 seconds.
Im sure this is no shocker to us who saw the Janet Jackson breast shot a couple of years ago, but this deffinately was a step up on the rating scale.
This is just another case where porn has become the norm in our life. As the Super Bowl game was on another cable network, Spike TV, was showing the Adult Video Awards from Las Vegas! It’s the grammy’s for porn! I wonder how they rate who’s the best actor or actress? And who votes? Who goes to these events too? 
Many of you probably are aware that many actors got there start in the porn industry in the 70’s and producers as well. It’s a great place to start I guess. Unfortuately for many there is no get out of jail free card. Many get abused by the industry while others make a killing of a profit!
Hard core porn is just no longer …. Hard Core!
You have Jr. High students engaging in hard core like relations, videoing it on there cell phone and sending it to there friends! Now that’s Hard Core! 
The pursuit of false pleasure is endless. Why is this bad?
Because false pleaseure leads to destruction. It looks like a porn addict, a young women with babies or a young mother aborting her child. How many millions upon millions of people are in bondage to porn? Addictions don’t love anybody, but the substance.
So at the A.V.A. in Vegas people are on the stage with happy smiles thinking they are movie stars, yet what a illussion! No longer to those who make it in the San Fernando Valley the main producers of porn, but now through technology all of us can produce and show our own porn to millions! 
The super bowl is the most watched sporting event other then the Wordcup and olympics, so it seems appro-poe to have what has become mainstreame in on all the action. As one writter wrote…”Would you like porn with that burger?”

Psalm 4: 2 How long, O men, will you turn my glory into shame [a] ? 
How long will you love delusions and seek false gods

Needing Freedom?

I love a passage that is found in Joshua 7:13.  It says, “you cannot satand before your enemies until you take away the accursed thing from among you!”

The backround is that the nation of Israel are going to battle agaist a whimpy, tiny of a nation, but have run into a major roadblock!  They are unable to win.  The reason why is given in verse 13.

Like Isareal we at times seem to be stuck in a rut with no light in sight.  The reason for this is that we need to remove an obstacle from our lives that is keeping us from experienceing the joyful freedom we so desire.

For those I talk to it’s porn.  12% of the interenet is porn so many women and men have found a pleasure that has now become such a obstacle in the lives.  For many who are reading this, you to have stuggled with porn more then likely and you’ve tried and tried to be rid of it only to fall back week after week.  50% of all internet users in any given month are porn viewers!   Removing for some mean killing there TV or Computer, for others its not going to the local bar or social event.  But this we must get… Unless it’s removed we cannot stand.

This porn obstacle has influenced our our nation from the polititians to the homless person in the park.  Even the 2008 Bush stimulus checks we recieved as a nation went to porn!

An independent market-research firm, AIMRCo (Adult Internet Market Research Company), has discovered that many websites focused on adult or erotic material have experienced an upswing in sales in the recent weeks since checks have appeared in millions of Americans’ mailboxes across the country.

As crazy as it sounds, porn has been a obstacle in our nation and in our individual lives.  “We cannot stand against our enemies until we take away the accursed thing from among us.”

How tuff it is for the porn addiction man or women to make good decisions either when it comes to war and economics or how to manage your families expenses or dicipline your kids.

If you are reading this and have tried to “remove” porn from your life only to fail, please visit www.runninglight.org