Today we have porn piped right into our homes through satellite or our cable providers at a cost either per month or purchasing PPV movies on the spot. Through New Frontier Media in Colorado or another producer and distributor of Porn easy access is here more than ever before. Battling Porn is no longer for some people, but now it for all. There are those that do not want to see it near them, yet they can’t seem to get away from it. This is where amputation comes in.
What I have found over the years in observing the kind of Porn that is on Cable is that it has followed the trend of today’s TV programing. We see a ton of either “Real” TV Porn shows that have a mix of women and men thrown into a interesting situation of living together in a home with cameras everywhere watching all moves. Mtv was incredibly ahead of it’s time years ago yet Porn has taken it to another level of depravity of course, now not withholding all activity in the home.
What I find even more interesting about these situations more than ever is the natural almost “normal” way all involved act. As if this is the norm, or a right way to act. I find a incredible lack of perspective of life’s longevity in today’s Porn. It’s not like the 90’s where you had fantasy situations that we all knew were not the norm. Today the shows portray your average looking men and women (not all the time of course), seeming to be living this kind of Porn life as normal. It is not acting per say, but their norm…their life.
Oh, my mind just recounts reading Ron Jeremy’s book and how he has always struggled with being in a monogamous relationship though he has desperately wanted too. I wish the others would read his book, if for anything to get perspective that life can be long. Ron J. has lived a life of sex with many people. This has had it’s consequence in his life. He has not experience the wonderful joy of loving someone exclusively. Without this exclusivity love cannot take root and run deep. Our love for our parents grows as time goes on. That’s because as time goes we have more opportunity to extend love to them. This love is a large tree planted by a river! You cannot be this without time running its course to allow deep penetration into the soil!
Can you see what is happening to so many of these men and women that have gone the way of temperary pleasure? They have traded the beautifuness of a life of love for a temporary stimulation in making money through pleasure. Both money and temperary pleasure will perish, but love will not. 1 Corinthians 13:1
Oh, what is a life that is lead when at the end you are alone. Sure you have detoured from the hardship of commitment to someone, from even the vulnerability that is a given in marriage, but you have also fortified the understanding of what moves mountains… Love. When I die, I desire to have my kids and my lovely wife at my side! I long for her face to be the last thing I see before leaving this planet. For she has been my partner from my youth. I have seen her body age and will see it age more ending if death. Her hands will no longer be soft, but old, wrinkled…but I wouldn’t want to have any other hand holding me at the end. Her’s is what I know, what I have experienced in a lifetime. Her eyes are what I know. They have been seeing me for a lifetime. Oh do you see it, do you catch the beauty of this! My eyes welt up just thinking of my wife in my life over the past 30 years. I have seen her grow from a little girl to a women of faith, of loyalty, of integrity, of love. Her love runs deep, deeper than any women that has settled for the reality TV Porn style that is looking oh so normal today.
Today this reality porn just kills me with it’s normality. It makes it seem like it is suppose to be normal to go to College and engage in incredibly depraved sexual parties. I know, I have succumb to the brainwash, I understand. But I ask those, please understand what we give up when we go this direction. The Porn we see so trendy on Cinamax etc., Too much for TV and Playboy have caught the public’s desire for reality. The makers have now pushed the envelope of reality for many viewers in the realm of sex that would have never thought about participating in such extreme activities on a regular basis. Don’t sucumb to it, the end does not look good. How can you learn to love a person when you take what is sacred and treat it as something common? Anyone in our life that means something to us, is just that because they are uncommon to us. Love does this. We must not make the mistake of thinking a trade is not taking place.
Do not throw away love! Don’t trade down and settle for this empty bucket of sex with many people only to come to the end and have no-one, because you have not known love.
The Love of Christ is there for you. He is God’s only Son, given as a substitute for our failures to walk in wholeness before a Whole God. This He did on His own will. It was His Joy to make for himself a people, forgiven and accepted. Cry out to Him. He said He stands at the door and knocks. I answered that door in 1990 and the love that has been seen by me in my life was a love I did not know. it is beautiful, to much to describe. You will be blown away! Come to Him! He makes what we have destorted and brings such clarity.
Psalm 4 In your light we see light.